What If You Just Don’t Feel It?

Of course, there are likely to be at least a couple skeptics at most seder tables. The story of the Exodus, with it’s other-worldly plagues, set in the midst of detailed and convoluted rabbinic explanations of a few Biblical passages, doesn’t mean much to those too attached to their blinders which don’t permit them to gaze beyond our contemporary, materialist world. Nostalgia only goes so far and then a Seder host is lucky if the damage is limited to bored looks and questions about when we eat.

The “dirty little secret” in the observant world is that it’s also a mighty challenge to inject much life and enthusiasm into the rituals and recitals, even for those of us who have been, once again, studying, cleaning and cooking in anticipation. Familiarity seems to inevitably breed contempt, or at least disengagement. Even deeply believing Jews, even those of us who professionally teach and try to inspire other Jews, are not immune to the gravity-field of ennui.

Perhaps we can repurpose the initial dose of nostalgia as a catalyst. After all, even though we’re enjoined each year to feel as if we, ourselves, are being rescued from Egyptian slavery, it’s hard to go back that far in time, into an almost legendary past we didn’t physically experience.  Maybe the smells (olfactory, perhaps the most “primitive”, certainly the most evocative sense), the familiar songs, the comfort of family jokes and rituals can be utilized to not merely remind us, but to actually transport our spirits to seders past. And once we’ve cracked the secret of time-travel with this tiny and seemingly trivial initial jump, let’s keep going, all the way back to when we join our former, ancient selves and experience the fear, the disbelief, the insecurity, the terror and then the surprising relief of yet-to-be-known freedom.

With the passing of almost the entire Shoah, Holocaust, generation, almost none of us are left can really understand the level of terror and uncertainty that I suspect are absolutely necessary components to reaching true freedom. Of course we pray that our people never undergo any horror remotely approaching that in the future. However, the opportunity to at least vicariously and in yearly fractional installments experience what our fathers did in their final days in Egypt, is designed to enable us to move forward into heights of freedom, independence and dignity, to a level even those later ancestors who experienced both sovereignty and the resultant indwelling of God’s Holy Presence, the Shechina, in His Holy Temple, never reached. The secret is to engage in honest feeling (let yourself be terrified at the mention of the plagues) deep conversation, relating but also actively hearing others as, together, we speak (read the words of our sages as conversation and descriptions of their experiencing God’s Infinite Complexity) our experiences on this journey.

All of our rituals and traditions, including or especially Pesach Seder, are doomed to tedium if they’re relegated to mere re-enactment, whether we re-enact the grand drama of the Exodus or merely the comforts of our childhood. But if we honestly try to re-experience and relate, it can act as a springboard to filling our destiny, bimheyra b’yameyny. Not only the holiday and ourselves, but the entire Jewish people can now become truly alive.

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6 Responses to What If You Just Don’t Feel It?

  1. Mr. Cohen says:

    Rabbi Lazer Brody of Breslov said:

    “Things that happen weird on [Passover] Seder night, and they accepted with emunah, if someone accepts them with emunah [and does not become angry], you cannot imagine the power of atonement they have for all a person did all the way back.”

    It’s All B’Seder, a public lecture by Rabbi Lazer Brody, 2016 April 21

  2. I totally agree that if one can accept with emunah it’s, far away, the best. But many of our people have to work up to that level. B’Ezrat HaShem, they/we all will.
    Chag Sameach v’Kasher

    (explaining the bracha, Rabbi Shloime Twerski zt”l taught that the hardest mitzva in the entire list of 613 is Simchat Yom Tov. By comparison, then, cleaning is easy. But to be happy for 49 hours, to not get angry or impatient even once…… that’s a madrega!

  3. Nathan Lopes Cardozo says:

    Thanks!!!!! Have a great Pesach, love, Nathan

  4. Mr. Cohen says:

    Kali Sayyid said:

    “Even if Israel ceased to exist, Jordan, Egypt, Syria and Saudi Arabia would immediately clash over Palestine. So the end of Israel does not guarantee a Palestinian state.”

    SOURCE: The Origins of the Middle East Mess, a Caspian Report Kali Sayyid, posted as a 9.5-minute YouTube video, published 202/12/27

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